mamamantis:

i mean don’t you think it’s interesting that white feminists are PISSING THEMSELVES over the (barely noticeable) merida redesign and starting petitions and emailing disney and kicking up this huge fucking fuss

but when it came to pocahontas’ outfit becoming even MORE inaccurate and racist and mulan getting the shit whitewashed out of her and turned into a ~*~delicate oriental pearl~*~ instead of a warrior it was like “yeah that’s bad, also the glitter is tacky. gee whiz”

Valid point. But sexualizing cartoon illustrations (especially Merida) that young minds idolize is exactly the fuxking shit I don’t like.

(via fuckyeahhardfemme)

ao-oa:

isolation rarely disappoints;
people
consistently do.

The key to her heart is that you have to give her what she needs over what she wants.

Sometimes tough love makes her love you more. She won’t see it then, but hopefully she will before it’s too late.

This, however, is only to be done when what she wants in the long run happens to be what you want as well. There’s no point trying to change an inevitable outcome.

And the worst habit women have is meaning the total opposite of what we say. If this confuses you, look into her eyes. The truth is there.

What she wants is definitely an important factor in what influences your actions, but don’t lose yourself. After all, she wants You.